How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 02.07.2025 04:43

Does not procrastinate.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
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Hangs out with loser friends.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Procrastinates a lot.
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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What I need from you?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
What’s the craziest thing you’ve heard pretending to be asleep?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
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That's it for today.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
How come Jesus died on Friday and rose on Sunday? That's not 3 days and three nights.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Ask yourself:
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?